parents, friends, elderly mostly will ask
"when you want to have baby"
"pregnant oledi not?"
"still wait arr? 30 lo.... wait for what?"
no doubt that we are in d.i.n.k at the moment
(double income no kids)
i'm admit that i've being refuse to have baby
not because that i don't like baby
i love kids all the time
i've many cousin sister brothers
and have taken care of them when they still a baby
my hubby loves baby too
can be seen when he plays with his new born niece
but when i told my family or friends that we not going to have baby at the moment
there was so many voice from them
saying why, why, why???
we actually also have discuss
even when before married
and after married too
still discuss that want baby or not
i'm so fortunate to have such a open minded husband
he didn't give me any pressure on this
and we've discuss it all the time
there was some point that makes us don't like to have baby
and we feel sad when these points not so easy to solve
not cos the money matter
not cos the pain matter (that's only my matter)
not cos the hardness of taking care and raise the baby matter
we might have baby someday
someday when gods wants us have